I want to share with you top tips for getting casual sex by creating killer personal ads on the worlds biggest adult personals site, Fling. Now Fling have thousands of members in their personals community actively seeking sex partners. Chances are that if you live in the U.S you have at least 50,000 to 100,000 members practically on your doorstep. What I’m going to do is show you how to use their totally free personal ads to get yourself laid. Within literally hours of reading this article it is highly possible you will have hundreds of people wishing to contact you. The most responses I have personally had is 214 in the second hour of creating my free profile.
The Secret Is A Killer Personals Profile
Now the idea is to create a truly award-winning profile. Trust me, if you create an effective profile you will have people sending you messages within hours, sometimes minutes of actually joining the site. I’m going to show you exactly how you can achieve this and you will be shocked at the simplicity of the techniques.
Be Noticed With A Unique Personal Pic
The first thing you will need is a good pic. You can upload more pics but, honestly, one is all you need. Why? Because you are going to use this pic to catch people’s attention! This will be your default photo. Your other photos can be average because they will be seen after you have created a great initial impression.
Now most profile pics you see are just so very boring and just like thousands of others. You need to be different and, at the same time, ensure that you look attractive. It does not matter if you’re not quite as beautiful as Eva Longoria or as handsome as Brad Pitt – because neither are 99.99% of people out there, let’s face it! What is important is to show yourself looking your best in an interesting pose that captures the eyes of people browsing the fling personal ads.
Let me give you a couple of examples of what not to do before I tell you what you should do.
Do not take pics of yourself in any of the following poses : in extreme close-up, waving in the mirror, showing only “part” of your body, sat with your mom or – worse yet – your ex-wife.
A picture tells a thousand words. So, ask yourself now, what would someone like about yourself that you can promote in your pic? Perhaps you’re a very clever person, well-educated and well-read. In this case, take a pic of yourself covered in a pile of books, giving your best winning smile. This will show your fun side as well as your intellectual side! But maybe you’re not into books? Maybe you like sports? Fantastic! You will want to show off your athleticism as well as your funny, approachable, human side. Here’s an idea in this case: You could hold a ball covering the lower half of your face where your month would go and, drawn on the ball, could be a big smiley mouth!
Just because this is a sexual encounters site, does not mean that you have to look sexy because people are attracted to intellect, humor and so many more attributes as well as looks.
So I think by now you get the picture – and excuse the pun! Your photo needs to look different from the norm in order to stand out from the crowd, whilst also promoting your sense of humor and whatever other likable characteristics there are about yourself.
Snappy Headline And Self-Description
What comes next is your self-description. Again it is all-important to stand out from the crowd. Be funny, be whacky, be a nice person someone would want to meet.
The best way to start is with a great headline! So many people on adult personals sites use headlines like Single Guy Seeking Single Girl, Divorced Woman Looking For Loving. One word, folks: Boring! I promise you, the combination of a great headline and eye-catching profile photo will, without a doubt, make your personals ad more visible than 90% of all the others on Fling. Another killer tip is to turn your headline into a question! Believe me, sometimes it is almost irresistible to not look at a profile with a great question-headline. Now combine your photo and headline with a winning description and you are in the top 1% of those most visible on Fling personals.
Your descrition should be pretty short. A couple of pithy paragraphs will do. Promote your good points but – and this is the key, people – be funny! Now, sure, no one’s expecting you to be Jim Carey, and maybe you’re not entirely funny in real life, but for a personals ad to be effective you need to show off your humorous side. It relaxes people and makes you instantly approachable. And that is what we want. We want someone to see your snappy headline and click to read your profile, then be blown away by a charming photo and, when it comes to the description, be made to feel comfortable about approaching you as well as intrigued to do so.
Success With Your Free Adult Personals Ad
Now with of members members hoping to get laid and a fantastic, super-duper, personals ad, you are going to soon find a pile of mail in your inbox. Hundreds of responses in the first hour is not impossible – I’ve seen it happen! People have reported as many as 800 responses in their first hour. And the fantastic thing about this is you have not paid anything, not a single cent, and yet you have hundreds of people practically beating down your door for a date!
Now I know for a fact that lots of people are using these tips. So act now and get in on the fun. I would be willing to bet you have thousands of men or women right in your zip code areas who would really want to meet up with you. I put in a search for myself and there was actually 187,000 people within 100 miles of where I live. Now even if only 1 percent of them want to meet me, that’s still 1870 people.